Single soldier living off post paying out of pocket?

I am a E4 single male soldier, because i moved off post now my command is out to get me, they are trying to find anyway to do it as well. To my understanding and from what i have read in the AR there isnt anything that stats i have to sleep in the barracks, i do however have to maintain a barracks room, and that is it. The command is threating me and telling me that i have to move back in the barracks, Is there a specific AR that covers this? ya or nay? trying to fight fire with fire here