Is this true life follows pattern?

okay this has always amazed me,when i was kid i use to read comics,and i never got any problem in reading words in mind understanding the acts and the characters in one go,it was a fun for me,as if i am only a listener and some skilled reader is reading the words in my mind(i still remember that its true)my sister.however find it difficult,and she didn't enjoy reading comics as i do,i usually got frustrated in understanding her such behavior,and use to thought she was boring,after few years when i reached high school i lost interest in comics and became involved in human relations,girlfriend,lover and all make ups and break ups these all where serious stuffs for me,although my parents use to tell that this all is just behavior of a teen ager,although i don't use to believe and use to think this is practiced by all,when i became young i started reading Kafka Dostoevsky and all and learned about human mental jail and rest,now i use to think this love all is just an illusion and i don't have any interest in it now(a teen ager might not agree this)is this true that life follows strict pattern every thing is pre written,and we are just moving in different barracks of prison at different point of time,i wonder when i see my parents don't give any strange response when i ask these things to them,just because they are convinced that yes it is due to their life experience.